Dating a girl my friend kissed in the past
Since he has traditionally been a sounding board whose wisdom I take as truth, I sought his response to my letter’s forthcoming confession about a kiss like I would a Sunday sermon or yoga instructor’s intention for the practice.We walked arm-in-arm through Williamsburg to fit under the umbrella that shielded us from a New York rainstorm on our way to dine on artisan pizza. My friend was known for having the same long-term boyfriend throughout college, and this was the first time I had heard of a girl.Once the send button was pressed, it was as if the doctor had walked through the sterile white door where my feet nervously dangled off the exam bed.Exiting my laptop screen, I grabbed my car keys to run necessary last-minute errands before I could comfortably drink wine at home to ease the anxiety.Everything during the night was extremely platonic, but at the end of the night, when he walked me home, I turned to put my key in the door and when I went to face him he was standing VERY close. Another is a friend that I had an isolated encounter with, many years ago, but again we are just cool. I mean, especially since he indicated that he wanted to talk to you again. That night I didn’t see it coming, but in retrospect, I suppose I should have.At the end of a holiday party this past December, a high school friend and I sat facing each other at the dining room table.
However, sometimes the attraction still bubbles to the surface, past denial and straight-through doubt, due to a sudden event like a kiss, job change or move.
A couple years ago when one of my guy friends found a pool party photo featuring a blacked out Annie kissing a girl friend in the background like a Where’s Waldo?
illustration, I felt as though I had graduated to the confidence level of my high school friends.
Girls who have told me about their feelings for girls in detail, varying from mild attraction to love.
Girls who land in multiple places on the sexuality spectrum.