Dating doesnt want gf
they have to understand (and accept) your family dynamic.
For instance, on the outside, my family is pretty bougie and glam.
Even if their senses of humor are bitchy or they act super-serious and studious, they all have similar open hearts and solid core values.
It's an underlying anxiety, it's an inner restlessness, it's a constant questioning of self.
They won't see the intricate emotional nuances behind what outer emotions you're throwing out there.
If you're being sarcastic, they'll think you're being dead serious and take offense.
See, kittens, a person who gets you will naturally understand why you feel the way you feel.
They're not mind-readers, but they will have a general understanding of your emotional responses.