Dating how to find the one
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This might seem like a sort of defense mechanism against getting too involved, but I like to think of it more as a liberation tool—you assume that they're sleeping with other people, they assume that you're doing the same, and all of a sudden the pressure is off this date. And don't, under any circumstances, bring it up yourself. When you're on a date with someone, they deserve your undivided attention.
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However, you are more likely to find a partner in life by working on improving your attitude toward yourself, love, dating, and relationships.
And if you find yourself thinking about one person you're seeing even when you're with the others, well, that's a good problem to have.
Do you think dating multiple people at the same time is too messy, or is it a more convenient method for finding The One?