Dating someone in church
This will only work if you do not allow the relationship to enter into one too similar to marriage.
Premarital sex, obsessive discussions about marriage, or too much time spent together can all take the relationship to a level of intimacy that is inappropriate for dating.
This can only be accomplished in actual situations with the opposite sex.
God created us to need interpersonal relationships.
Dating is your opportunity to have a relatively deep relationship with someone before you commit to a lifetime of marriage. Erik Erikson believed that romantic experiences (or dating) play an important role in helping you develop a personal identity and intimacy.
We are not going to further elaborate on each of these points mentioned above, however we would like to focus on two in particular. Dating does not have to be scary, intimidating, pressure packed, or anything else but enjoyable.
In Genesis it says, Then the Lord God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone; I will make him a helper suitable for him." As Adam and Eve demonstrate, no matter how many friends we have, in order to fulfill our deep need for love and affection, we need close relationships with others, especially the opposite sex.
One of the worst of all human conditions is loneliness.
This authority comes from God and is delegated to leaders for the good of the church. Hold them in the highest regard in love because of their work. They keep watch over you as those who must give an account.
The following verses reflect the clear teaching that leaders should be respected and obeyed when operating within their legitimate sphere of authority: You know that the household of Stephanas were the first converts in Achaia, and they have devoted themselves to the service of the saints. Obey them so that their work will be a joy, not a burden, for that would be of no advantage to you. Of course the Bible's teaching on obedience does not mean the church can outlaw dissent when expressed legitimately.