Girls dating men like their fathers
But after she joined him in Virginia, he became distant and had angry flare-ups, Houston says.He barely resembled the man she'd married, but he did remind her of another man she knew well: her father.
"Also, when I'm upset about something, they'll always help me put it in perspective." Both share the name Mike, and they even look alike.(Life Wire) -- When Lynn Houston was 27, she met an affectionate young man during a business trip to Virginia.Although she lived in Arizona, the two began dating; they married six months later.Her husband, James, 31, resembles her dad and has a similar "hard-working, calm, kind" quality. "He grew up in a family who didn't do a lot of hugs and kisses and 'I love you's, and that does bother me," says Ney, a freelance journalist in Boise, Idaho."I think there could be some truth in the idea that I'm working through my history in my marriage." Breaking the chain Despite evidence that suggests some of us are attracted to mates who resemble our parents, it's not a foregone conclusion, says therapist Barbara Swenson, director of the Couple Center in Sherman Oaks, California.