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So I have reason to believe I'm half-decent looking and the photos are good enough. Several times girls in real life have indicated they thought I was attractive. Without assuming what I'm looking for, what's wrong with a quick tap in your opinion?
So I could say these women online and in real life were truthful, which is what I usually believe (although now I'm re-evaluating that.) Or I could say they were You don't mean I have to be ripped with my shirt off to get anywhere, do you? Would it make me to shallow if I said that's fine with me? And by "you" I mean people in general - not you specifically.
I also put up another good picture where I'm smiling.
Having shown both these photos to women on the net before (for instance, girls I've chatted with randomly), I have gotten good responses about half the time.
The online dating landscape doesn’t look great for women now.I don't believe I should be selling myself like a brand, and I don't believe it is even ethical for me, or anyone, to search through hundreds of profiles as if they were trading cards with different stats for strength, beauty, and intelligence, and then pick out what you want. A marketplace for a "special someone" is an extremely twisted idea IMHO.To say it's not a marketplace would be to tell me "just be yourself and replies will pour in", that is NOT the case here. It's either that we don't know how to write a profile, or don't know how to write a message, or that we just take bad profile pics. It's either that we don't know how to write a profile, or don't know how to write a message, or that we just take bad profile pics.Black women looking to date interracially are up for some stiff competition.Women of contact black women online often exoticize them.