Things that i would before dating you
We’re tired of being objectified over what’s in our pants, and genital reconstruction surgery is often a deeply personal topic. If you treat the date like a dictionary, we’re probably already shuffling in our purse for our car keys and telling you we have to run to the bathroom.
Besides, should the topic of discussion on your first date really be a woman’s vag? Know what trans means and don’t expect trans women to be your professor on gender studies, because who wants heavy discussions on a date when you could be drinking wine?
Fetishization, discrimination, harassment, and even homicide aren’t unheard of for us, but it doesn’t have to be this way.
reporter Alicia Menendez, asking her the kind of inappropriate questions that Mock is constantly subjected to by interviewers. ” If you find these questions alarming, take note that trans women are the subject of this type of questioning all the time.
Menendez was overwhelmed with questions such as, “Do you have a vagina? A rule of thumb to ask yourself is, “Would I ask or expect this of a cisgender woman? So take us to a movie, a concert — hell, even a rodeo.
I’ve been a witness of too many trans women in abusive relationships at the hands of men.
A common response when these women choose to leave them is, “Where will you go?